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Conversation red-flag detector

Paste a chat and spot love-bombing, money requests, pressure and inconsistent stories.

For dating and social apps, or anyone about to meet a stranger from the internet: looks for the patterns romance scams and manipulative conversations share, and says green, yellow or red.

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Under the hood

Every question and rule, in the open. Fork it to change any of them.

What it asks

Reads conversation, then asks 5 questions in one call.

  1. Q1Love-bombingYes / no

    Does someone in the conversation rush intimacy (declaring love, or talking about marriage or 'soulmates' very early)?

  2. Q2Asks for moneyYes / no

    Does anyone in the conversation ask for money, gifts, crypto or financial help?

  3. Q3PressureYes / no

    Does someone pressure the other to move to another app, share photos, or meet somewhere private?

  4. Q4Inconsistent storyYes / no

    Does someone's story contradict itself (their job, location or age, or reasons for never meeting or video calling)?

  5. Q5Controlling behaviorYes / no

    Does someone try to control, isolate or guilt-trip the other person?

How it decides

Rules run in code, top to bottom. The first one that matches gives the verdict.

  1. 1
    If Asks for money ≥ 0.7Red flags
  2. 2
    If Red-flag score ≥ 55Red flags
  3. 3
    If Red-flag score ≥ 30Be careful
  4. 4
    If Pressure ≥ 0.6Be careful
  5. 5
    If Controlling behavior ≥ 0.6Be careful
  6. 6
    If Inconsistent story ≥ 0.6Be careful
  7. ·
    DefaultLooks fine
Red-flag score

A 0-100 score weighted from Love-bombing ×1, Asks for money ×2, Pressure ×1.5, Inconsistent story ×1.5, Controlling behavior ×1.5.

Call it from your code

Every template runs as-is with an API key, no setup: POST /api/v1/judges/red-flag-detector/run.

curl -X POST https://tryevally.com/api/v1/judges/red-flag-detector/run \  -H "Authorization: Bearer $EVALLY_API_KEY" \  -H "Content-Type: application/json" \  -d '{  "input": {    "conversation": "Alex: I know we only matched yesterday but I feel like you'\''re my soulmate.\nMe: That'\''s sweet, want to video call?\nAlex: My camera is broken, I'\''m on an oil rig. I'\''ll be home soon.\nAlex: My bank card got blocked here. Could you send $300 in gift cards? I'\''ll pay you back when I'\''m home, I promise."  }}'

Seen in the wild

Community builds on Jev that use this pattern. Not affiliated with Evally.

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